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Why Date The Party Guy
It’s actually the best decision I’ve ever made.
When I fell in love with my boyfriend, I fell in love with his charisma, his charm, his ability to work a room. I also fell in love with his kindness and his willingness to try new things and I really could go on.
But with this… comes the added character of social.
He’s incredibly outgoing
And to no fault at all. I love how outgoing he is. Because of how outgoing he is, I’ve met one of my now closest friends. He has developed a meaningful relationship with my parents and family members. All at the work of himself. Inviting my dad to play golf, dropping off lunch to my mom in her office, playing basketball with my brothers. Things I would never expect from a new boyfriend.
He’s predictable.
It’s Friday night and my text isn’t being answered? I know who he’s with 90% of the time. The other 10% he’s at home on his couch and I’m with him. But this is a percentage that I’m ok with because I’m NOT the party girl.
Our days are Saturdays anyway, I know no matter how, when, or where — on Saturdays we will be together from sunrise till Sunday.