If He’s Interested You’ll Know?

What does it mean when you can’t get him out of your head, but he is clearly not into you the same way?

Is this a case for unrequited love? It’s not what you think.

I’ve gone on 4 first dates with strangers after going on a total of 4 dates with the guy I can’t seem to shake. Scrolling through our messages, I realized, I always text first, I always bring up future plans and in the month I’ve known him — he has reached out to me once.

So what happens when I go ghost after he told me he wouldn’t ghost me? Well, it’s been a few days and nothing yet, but that’s ok, because just because you feel like you’ve clicked, doesn’t meant they do.

What does it mean when they act interested in person, but that’s about it?

They’re not interested. Maybe you don’t have what they are looking for, maybe you aren’t at the same place, or maybe they really don’t know what they want.

In person there is hand holding, kissing, dancing, staring into each others eyes — all the crap that makes you think, wow he is really into me.

This is the “I’m busy” guy. The guy who refused to take it to the next step of intimacy because he didn’t want me to get “attached.”