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How Many Times Can Boundaries Be Crossed In One Day?

Golden Girl
5 min readDec 13, 2021

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I set a boundary with someone, and he ignored that boundary. On purpose.

It started on a Friday. Remember the attempt to set me up? It was that one. This whole ordeal has a lot of background and twists and turns. We’ll start with the original plans.

My best friend and I had plans for her birthday to go to a once in a lifetime event. The tickets were affordable unless you paid for the premium package, which we did and it we had planned our outfits and time of arrival for weeks. We had planned to go just the two of us, it something we did for our birthdays we always did something just the two of us.

I was talking with another friend who coincidentally had general admission tickets to the same show (this show was a big deal). That particular friend understood that I was there for my best friends birthday and it was something for the two of us. However, she got sick the day before the show and couldn’t make it. She texted our group chat with 8 people, asking if any of them want the ticket and everyone pretty much said no.

Now for the first crossed boundary

The guy from the set up texted her separately asking for the ticket. He knew I was going, but didn’t know the details of me being there with a particular friend. He texted me personally and our conversation was very one sided and clear on my end that I was to be there, without him.

Hey Kyra offered me the ticket to the show…

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Golden Girl
Golden Girl

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