I’m tired of defending men who don’t know any better, and I’m tired of asking women to communicate freely without judgement. This isn’t what you think it is. I’m not a woman bashing woman. I love women. But some of us have got to get a grip. I joined one…

You would think that after a few failed relationships, people would start to look more inward. But nobody ever thinks that they’re the problem. — I wanted someone to only adapt to my lifestyle Right? The right person will automatically fall in line. Wrong. The right person will understand some things you can’t give up or budge on. But the right person you will want to adjust certain aspects of your life. Something I realized after failed #168 was that it wasn’t always about…

Be honest with yourself, how many times did you tell your friends “I met someone.” Only for that person to ghost you or lead you on. — They say when you know, you know. Well, what if you’re intuition is off or you don’t trust yourself, or even worse — what if they’re the one for you but you aren’t the one for them. It happens and it sucks. For lack of a better term. But what happens when that saying is true?

Everyone always dreads the “I need some space” conversation. Mostly because it never ends well. — When boyfriend, “A” asked me for some space to get his head right I thought our very quick 4 month relationship was over. And now, we’re having conversations about living together and marriage and all it took was that “space” to get us there. And before I get into the…

Rumor states, that when you spend 100 hours in a year in any discipline, you are better than 95% of the world in that discipline. How does this play into personal and interpersonal relationships? If you commit 100 hours to your relationship a year, 18 minutes a day to give…

Yesterday I introduced my boyfriend of 6 months to my entire family. Brothers, mom, dad, aunt, grandma. The whole clan. — He wasn’t scared or intimdated which I loved. But there were a few things I would recommend when introducing your significant other to your loved ones. Introduce Your Parents First. My brother made the dire mistake of bringing his girlfriend to a family party without introducing him to our parents before hand. My mom…

Because we need another article on how to charm the pants off men? No. My boyfriend said to me as he fell asleep last night that I was his dream girl and that kept me up almost all night. As I was thinking about what I could have done to…

During my 10 year relationship in my twenties, I realized what the 80/20 rule was and how I was living in it… I wasn’t. You can read about my discovery above. But just as I outlined life and relationships in that article, I’ll deep dive into the 80/20 rule here…

Our relationship may have some downs, but I’ve never felt unloved or undervalued. 1. No Ask is Too Big Very early on he made it clear that he was my partner and what I couldn’t, he not only could, but wanted to do. …